Cat spoke her heart, opened some eyes. And i'm here to just explain my little thought regarding this word :"Accountability."

There's two end to this word:
1) being too accountable that becomes very irritating sometimes.(Like go toilet also report.)
2) being too unaccountable that everyone lost touch with you and you with them.
So not being legalistic till very rigid nor being too liberal till totally lose you, we must strike the balance.

I believe its a not a case of NEED to account but you WANT to account cause when she knows of your situation she will be able to give you sound advise and help you.

Seriously, if you don't account to her, she can't account to you. She can't help you. Cause she don't even know.

So when you account, you open yourself up in position to recieve help and guidance.

You choose!

Take home of the day, its never a need, its a want to account cause you love her and wish her to guide you. =)

Love,
Henry!